Where to begin??
It was a week long experience, and there are far too many little tales to tell for this blog, so I guess Ill just give the "Someone Elses Perspective" synopsis of the people n this post and a little about the voyage in the next one.
Note... The following descriptions of people are just from my perspective as it was on the voyage and is now a day after. It is not only possible but entirely likely that each of you who read this would form completely different impressions of these people.... Thats what "Someone Elses Perspective" is about.... enjoy :))))
So, who were we all?
Well, you all know me, and I guess this blog bears testament to my own personality "quirks" so Ill not elaborate about myself any further :)
The captain was Leonardo... a very interesting chap with more than a few idiosyncrasies.
He is a small healthy (though he smokes a fair bit) and slim man in his early sixties. He has the deep brown leathery "hide" of someone who has spent many years outside in the tropical sun sailing his yacht wearing only a ragged pair of shorts... Totally appropriate :))
He is an Italian and has the temperament to go with it... Which is to say that while on the yacht it is important to have a barometer to see what changes are coming in the weather, It would be way more valuable for the passengers to have a similar device for reading the skippers coming mood swings!... Yep, he is often a generous and happy fellow, but he is "played" by his emotions and can be dark and antagonistic just as easily.
He is a former physicist who worked at the CERN accelerator on some very deep Quantum physics stuff and he let me read his last technical paper (from about 10 years ago) for which, he was nominated for a Nobel prize! He quit that job and the good pay though and decided to just sail his yacht around the world and get by doing what he could... He has made it about a third of the way so far but seems to have got bogged in the Caribbean for the present. His current distraction being that his very young Colombian girlfriend got pregnant... and truth be told, he would rather be with a different former girlfriend...(that sounds like stories Ive heard more than once before!)
Yanik is another motorbike rider. He has a nice Yamaha 750 Tenerre... Its an older bike and is heavy and underpowered by todays standards but is a great bike (very like the Africa Twin). Yanik is Belgian and living in Quebec Canada. He is in his thirties and is a very nice friendly and fairly quiet guy. He is extremely unassuming and it was not till half way through the trip that I discovered he was a very well qualified pilot (from 767 commercial airlines to helicopter search and rescue, he captains them all :) He is doing the north-south motorbike trip that I am doing and his motivations seem similar to mine... economic down time between jobs/contracts and it seems like the thing to do!... I liked him a lot, and I hope our paths cross again on the ride south (though he is moving faster than I). Im sure he has is complications and "quirks" like the rest of us, but I think he did best at keeping it "pleasantly under wraps" fort the voyage :))
Eric is also a motorbiker, but of quite a different sort! He is riding a Yamaha R1 which is a top end 1000cc sport/racing bike with nearly 200 horse power!... This is a crazy thing to do for the distance he is going and with the variable-to-terrible roads he is riding on! He is riding it from the USA to Brazil where he now lives. Eric is French (Parisien) but has been living in Brasil for years and he wants the big sport bike so he is riding it down (because its cheaper than importing it through dealers etc). He is in his fourties and as far as I can tell, he has done various things in his life (biologist and geneticist ring a bell there) and these days he makes his living as a freelance photographer (he is apparently quite good at it). Eric was a late addition to the boat and had no booking to come with us. He and another guy just showed up at the dock on departure day with their stuff and their bikes. Not every one of the existing passengers (myself included) wanted to have two extra people and their bikes using up very limited space on the boat! We had been told there would be four to six passengers and now there would be nine! It only worked out that he could come in the end because one of the two extras suddenly decided to not come when he figured out that the salt water would corrode his beautiful new bike (Duhhh!... He decided to fly). Even then, Eric only made it on because the captain wanted the extra money and decided that four out of six votes was enough... Eric suffered quite a bit on the voyage because he had to stay above deck to not use up the other passengers space... That meant sleeping outside in the rain and rough seas...
I have to hand it to the guy, he tried really hard to help out and offered to cook many of the group meals...but the galley equipment, the food choices, and the sea conditions conspired against him (and us all) and meals were I would have to say mediocre at best! And to add to it, poor Eric had a really hard time when his turn came to piloting the boat... the steering of the yacht is very sluggish and subtle in wind and waves in the open sea with no land reference points; And relating what the boat is doing compared to the compass etc... Lets just say, it was the exact antithesis of riding the hyper-responsive sport bike! He didnt do well at it, and that didnt earn him the respect of the skipper!
Ah yes, and Eric freely admits that he loves and embraces his addictions - as any Frenchman would :)... and those are coffee, women, motorbikes, photography, and cigarettes! I cant say I share his outlook about women or his veritable NEED for a coffee first thing in the morning, but on the whole, he was a good guy and I was glad he made it on to the voyage with us.
Sebastian was the other motorbike rider (for a total of four). He had a more recent version of the bike Im riding (Suzuki DL650). He smokes, and has the interesting habit of cutting off just half of the standard filter on commercial cigarettes before smoking them. He was an Argentinian living in the USA and as far as I could tell was riding his bike south on a well planned trip (set up a year in advance with very visible blog and lots of postings on adventure riding bulletin board sites etc) and visiting orphanages with his bike as he went (His bike was all black and hed done it up a bit to be "the Bat bike" etc... Im sure the kids would have enjoyed it :) ... Apparently when he was a liitle kid in a poor town in Argentina, some guy riding a motorbike came through and ended up staying at his family home for a few days... It had a profound inspiring effect on him and he has dreamed of "paying it forward"... and this is his chance.Sebastian is in his thirties and I believe recently out of a of a marriage (and also had a young daughter I think ?).
... But what I suspect didnt make it into his blog (though I admit I have not read it) and that seemed to me to be a major activity for the ride, was picking up girls and getting them to sleep with him!...(which by the way he seems to be very good at :)) ) It was about the third thing that I heard him say...."Ive taken xx girls for a ride on the bike and yy (about half) of them have resulted in a very nice night for me"!... And that about sums Sebastian up as far as I could tell... For a large part, he seems to be the quintessential testosterone dominated male... If hes not riding the bike fast, or mastering a new skill, or chatting up the girls then he is rather lost! The yacht moving at a speed of about 10kmh and nothing to do but "sit around" was more than he could bear, but fortunately for him, there was a single girl on the trip, so he could "do" that to keep himself occupied :)
Yes, its pretty clear that I didnt think much of his outlook on women... But he was just doing "his thing" and he was not hurting me at all, So Im not his enemy... I just dont need to spend much of my time with him if there are girls around or they are the topic of conversation. He obviously has more depth than I got to see on the voyage (the orphanage visiting is clear testament to it) but it was not very apparent, and in truth, my own prejudices stopped me from actively finding out much more.
Marianne was the only single girl on the trip. She was German, twenty something, blond and quite attractive... Not supper attractive though...
I first met her at the hostel in Panama (where people get linked up with the yacht captains to cross to Colombia). There was a "very" attractive girl there who was very much enjoying the attention that she could get from all the boys, and at some point I noticed Marianne quietly "scoff" in the background at one of the lines of the conversation that she overheard. Now Im not absolutely sure because we didnt discuss it, but I believe the scoff was at the "transparency and shallowness" of the conversation and the way the other girl was playing with all the attention. It therefore amused me no end, a day or two later, to see how quickly she was happy to play the same game when she got the chance (ie no more attractive girl around to occupy the boys)... But, I suspect that most of us might behave similarly, and its probably just my prejudices and assumptions showing again! :))
Again, I didnt really get the chance to learn too much more about her because she was pretty much fully occupied with Sebastian. I did learn that she was travelling alone in central america, had pretty good Spanish and had recently completed an art history degree... She is also a smoker... and thats about it! But with the little talking we did, I am sure she was quite intelligent and was polite, friendly, and helpful to everyone on board :)
Hiro was a twenty something Japanese guy... He had very little English and about the same amount of Spanish. He was very friendly and open but had that peculiar Japanese "obsessiveness". He is also a smoker (I mention the smoking because its a very interesting aspect to a week long trip in the confined spaces of a small yacht - It really shows up how much people do or dont think about their impact on other peoples lives! :)) ) His obsessiveness showed in one of his adventures just before this voyage... In CostaRica he went on a tour up one of the volcanoes and became separated from the group (You really have to be "not paying attention" for this to happen)... after that, he got himself lost in the jungle for two days and was eventually found by dozens of police searching for him and after "having to" catch, kill, and eat raw, a snake in order to "survive"! (You absolutely do not have to do any such thing to survive here in the tropics for a couple of days!!!) On the voyage though he was always nice and friendly. He did however spend one day getting very quickly and focussedly drunk by downing about a half a bottle of white rum!... apparently that was his objective for the day!
He reminded me very strongly of Shota, the Japanese guy that was on the last crossing I did two years ago... So much so that throughout the voyage I continually had to catch myself and not call him by the wrong name... I didnt really get to talk to him much because of the language barrier but I liked him a lot and I wish him well in his future adventures ... which Im sure will be "colourful!" :)
And that just leaves the Finnish couple. Saddly, I really dont remember their names (though they were Finnish names and not easy for my English name oriented memory to retain), but that is a measure of me and not of them. They were in their twenties, and definitely a close couple. Though I have never been to Finland, I would guess they were somewhat "counter culture" from their assorted tattoos and clothing styles... but neither of them were smokers. The girl was very nice and very quiet, (She was the quietest person on the trip) and I know almost nothing about her other than that she was more or less fluent in about six languages, and was vegetarian... For the most part though, her personality seemed overwhelmed by that of her partner. He seemed almost "German" in his style to me (and Im sure you can misconstrue that comment if you want to :))) )... He liked his world to stick to his expectations (and dont we all :) ). But our little voyage was not playing along!... First surprise for him (like me) was that there would be eight passengers rather than five or six... Then there was the weather and the schedule... They had booked flights in Colombia to places further south) for less than two days after the planned arrival date (4 day trip) and we departed port a day late and it took two more days than planned... and there were some small extra costs.... It all added up to "not what he had been told" and while he did adapt, it was clear that he was not happy about it and that he was sure he was right and it "shouldnt happen like this"! One of his comments that I found quite amusing was regarding the music that was playing at one point in the long crossing... It was not great music and his cheery comment was that hed "rather have bad music than no music".... And thats the exact opposite of me! (though I bit my toung and said nothing)
I suspect it was really mostly just because they had only left their highly organised world a few weeks before for the disorganised and unpunctual world of central America... Id have had more sympathy for him if hed been more interactive with the rest of the people and come across a bit less arrogant! He had apparently been on Finlands "first team" in Soccer (whether that was amateur or professional I dont know) and when we played some volley ball in the San Blass islands he was clearly a focussed athlete ... and I suspect thats where that "arrogance" I felt originated.... It seems to me to be a very common and unfortunate trait of people who are successful in one field or another... They seem to think they know it all (yes yes, Im sure the same accusation can easily be at me :))) ) and they are very happy to let you know that they do and dont think much of your differing ways or opinions.... Oh well, what can ya do but let them move along their way :) ... But again, he was not hurting anyone and in truth he and his very nice girl friend spent most of their time together and they caused no problems.
Mirra was the only other one on the boat, and she was the ships dog. She was a mid sized mongrel of very pleasant disposition. She was about two years old and was still quite playful. She was a very nice and very friendly dog. She was never allowed below decks and rarely on the seating benches. When we went ashore in the San Blass islands for an afternoon, she happily ran around snuffling all over the place and ate just about anything she could find with a strong smell. This had the predictable and unhappy result that she got a bad gastro-intestinal infection and spent the next two days with diarrhoea all over the boat deck! (Actually, Eric looked after her and carefully watched her diet till she was well again)
It seemed to me that the toughest thing in her life was her master... Leonardo... who clearly loved her a lot (and she loved him in return), but he had no clue about his own inconsistencies and it was very hard to watch him punish her when his temper flared for things that she could not possibly understand.... But again, how can you interfere and how can you make someone see what they just dont want to see... You cant!
And that was our little ship of fools that survived in relatively good spirits another stormy crossing of the Caribbean. :)))
I find it unsurprising but quite interesting that I have far more comments about the people who were more challenging for me to live in such close proximity with than I have for the people who were easy to live with.
And the truth is that while there is a paragraph here about this person and one there about that person... In fact, every paragraph I write is a reflection of me and and this whole post pretty clearly illustrates that I have plenty of my own personality "issues" if you look... Its that old "mirror" thing that life does for us all...
So Ill close by saying that its likely that I was the biggest "fool" of all :)))
I first met her at the hostel in Panama (where people get linked up with the yacht captains to cross to Colombia). There was a "very" attractive girl there who was very much enjoying the attention that she could get from all the boys, and at some point I noticed Marianne quietly "scoff" in the background at one of the lines of the conversation that she overheard. Now Im not absolutely sure because we didnt discuss it, but I believe the scoff was at the "transparency and shallowness" of the conversation and the way the other girl was playing with all the attention. It therefore amused me no end, a day or two later, to see how quickly she was happy to play the same game when she got the chance (ie no more attractive girl around to occupy the boys)... But, I suspect that most of us might behave similarly, and its probably just my prejudices and assumptions showing again! :))
Again, I didnt really get the chance to learn too much more about her because she was pretty much fully occupied with Sebastian. I did learn that she was travelling alone in central america, had pretty good Spanish and had recently completed an art history degree... She is also a smoker... and thats about it! But with the little talking we did, I am sure she was quite intelligent and was polite, friendly, and helpful to everyone on board :)
Hiro was a twenty something Japanese guy... He had very little English and about the same amount of Spanish. He was very friendly and open but had that peculiar Japanese "obsessiveness". He is also a smoker (I mention the smoking because its a very interesting aspect to a week long trip in the confined spaces of a small yacht - It really shows up how much people do or dont think about their impact on other peoples lives! :)) ) His obsessiveness showed in one of his adventures just before this voyage... In CostaRica he went on a tour up one of the volcanoes and became separated from the group (You really have to be "not paying attention" for this to happen)... after that, he got himself lost in the jungle for two days and was eventually found by dozens of police searching for him and after "having to" catch, kill, and eat raw, a snake in order to "survive"! (You absolutely do not have to do any such thing to survive here in the tropics for a couple of days!!!) On the voyage though he was always nice and friendly. He did however spend one day getting very quickly and focussedly drunk by downing about a half a bottle of white rum!... apparently that was his objective for the day!
He reminded me very strongly of Shota, the Japanese guy that was on the last crossing I did two years ago... So much so that throughout the voyage I continually had to catch myself and not call him by the wrong name... I didnt really get to talk to him much because of the language barrier but I liked him a lot and I wish him well in his future adventures ... which Im sure will be "colourful!" :)
And that just leaves the Finnish couple. Saddly, I really dont remember their names (though they were Finnish names and not easy for my English name oriented memory to retain), but that is a measure of me and not of them. They were in their twenties, and definitely a close couple. Though I have never been to Finland, I would guess they were somewhat "counter culture" from their assorted tattoos and clothing styles... but neither of them were smokers. The girl was very nice and very quiet, (She was the quietest person on the trip) and I know almost nothing about her other than that she was more or less fluent in about six languages, and was vegetarian... For the most part though, her personality seemed overwhelmed by that of her partner. He seemed almost "German" in his style to me (and Im sure you can misconstrue that comment if you want to :))) )... He liked his world to stick to his expectations (and dont we all :) ). But our little voyage was not playing along!... First surprise for him (like me) was that there would be eight passengers rather than five or six... Then there was the weather and the schedule... They had booked flights in Colombia to places further south) for less than two days after the planned arrival date (4 day trip) and we departed port a day late and it took two more days than planned... and there were some small extra costs.... It all added up to "not what he had been told" and while he did adapt, it was clear that he was not happy about it and that he was sure he was right and it "shouldnt happen like this"! One of his comments that I found quite amusing was regarding the music that was playing at one point in the long crossing... It was not great music and his cheery comment was that hed "rather have bad music than no music".... And thats the exact opposite of me! (though I bit my toung and said nothing)
I suspect it was really mostly just because they had only left their highly organised world a few weeks before for the disorganised and unpunctual world of central America... Id have had more sympathy for him if hed been more interactive with the rest of the people and come across a bit less arrogant! He had apparently been on Finlands "first team" in Soccer (whether that was amateur or professional I dont know) and when we played some volley ball in the San Blass islands he was clearly a focussed athlete ... and I suspect thats where that "arrogance" I felt originated.... It seems to me to be a very common and unfortunate trait of people who are successful in one field or another... They seem to think they know it all (yes yes, Im sure the same accusation can easily be at me :))) ) and they are very happy to let you know that they do and dont think much of your differing ways or opinions.... Oh well, what can ya do but let them move along their way :) ... But again, he was not hurting anyone and in truth he and his very nice girl friend spent most of their time together and they caused no problems.
Mirra was the only other one on the boat, and she was the ships dog. She was a mid sized mongrel of very pleasant disposition. She was about two years old and was still quite playful. She was a very nice and very friendly dog. She was never allowed below decks and rarely on the seating benches. When we went ashore in the San Blass islands for an afternoon, she happily ran around snuffling all over the place and ate just about anything she could find with a strong smell. This had the predictable and unhappy result that she got a bad gastro-intestinal infection and spent the next two days with diarrhoea all over the boat deck! (Actually, Eric looked after her and carefully watched her diet till she was well again)
It seemed to me that the toughest thing in her life was her master... Leonardo... who clearly loved her a lot (and she loved him in return), but he had no clue about his own inconsistencies and it was very hard to watch him punish her when his temper flared for things that she could not possibly understand.... But again, how can you interfere and how can you make someone see what they just dont want to see... You cant!
And that was our little ship of fools that survived in relatively good spirits another stormy crossing of the Caribbean. :)))
I find it unsurprising but quite interesting that I have far more comments about the people who were more challenging for me to live in such close proximity with than I have for the people who were easy to live with.
And the truth is that while there is a paragraph here about this person and one there about that person... In fact, every paragraph I write is a reflection of me and and this whole post pretty clearly illustrates that I have plenty of my own personality "issues" if you look... Its that old "mirror" thing that life does for us all...
So Ill close by saying that its likely that I was the biggest "fool" of all :)))
